What We Talk About When We Talk About Love

The last time cupid infected me with his poison arrow, except for the situation ruminating at present, I have felt like Mel, the protagonist in Raymond Carver’s “What We Talk About When We Talk About Love.” Without my ridiculous misconceptions getting in the way, here are a few of my favorite excerpts from the film adaptation, Birdman.

“Mel always has love on his mind,” she said. “Don’t you, honey?” She smiled, and I thought that was the last of it.
“I just wouldn’t call Ed’s behavior love. That’s all I’m saying, honey,” Mel said. “What about you guys?” Mel said to Laura and me. “Does that sound like love to you?”
“I’m the wrong person to ask,” I said. “I didn’t even know the man. I’ve only heard his name mentioned in passing. I wouldn’t know. You’d have to know the particulars. But I think what you’re saying is that love is an absolute.”
Mel said, “The kind of love I’m talking about is. The kind of love I’m talking about, you don’t try to kill people.”
Laura said, “I don’t know anything about Ed, or anything about the situation. But who can judge anyone else’s situation?”

Zeds dead baby

“There was a time when I thought I loved my first wife more than life itself. But now I hate her guts. I do. How do you explain that? What happened to that love? What happened to it, is what I’d like to know. I wish someone could tell me.”

My ex-wife and I… In the throws of our infatuation.

Author: canadianhayes

Author of #FiveWeeksintheAmazon, global nomad and generally interesting human.

2 thoughts

  1. “I could hear my heart beating. I could hear everyone’s heart. I could hear the human noise we sat there making, not one of us moving, not even when the room went dark.” My favorite line from that book 🙂

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